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Im a Person!
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Posted:Apr 8, 2014 9:15 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2017 5:39 am
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Ok.....I have attached a pic of a conversation that I had recently with a guy. He checked out my profile....flirted and hot listed me. So...I sent him a friend request and the pictured email is what he sent to my mail box. In case you can't read it in the pic I will gladly put him on blast in this post narrative....his email response to my friend request was as follows:
XCBiker882
You are beautiful and would love to be your friend. I would to be with you but I don't accept friends requests from men or or T's because it turns some people off and limits my chances. It does not turn me off. You turn me on a lot. You are beautiful.
Ok...so that is the wonderful response I received from my outstretched hand of friendship. Im beautiful but he doesn't want to be seen with me or have anyone know I'm his friend. I turn him on as long as nobody knows he's turned on by me because finding me attractive would be a complete embarrassment and he wouldn't seem as much of a man I guess. I guess if someone saw him with me as a friend he wouldn't be a "REAL" man.
What makes a "REAL" man? Is it having a 9 inch cock? A Porn star hot wife? Being an Ex Heavy weight Cage Fighter? Being 6'2"? Well I am or have all of those and I have tits. Personally, I think what makes a man is whats inside. Not who you like...or who you hang out with....or your cock size...you height...or your muscles. Its how you treat people. This guy treats me like a Fat chick or a Moped....im fun to ride as long as your friends don't catch you riding one. Im not a person to him.....im not worthy of crawling out of the shadows and he damn well doesn't want to be caught actually finding me attractive by anybody. He thinks I'm sexy but hell....if anyone knew that he wouldn't be seen as a "Real" man.
I wanted to share this email with you guys because I get mail like this a lot. For all of you non transexuals out there...I want you to imagine a world full of men that are too embarrassed to be seen with you....who want to fuck you as long as it stays a secret...who would never want to be seen In public with you...even as friends because someone might think they are remotely attracted to you and that would ruin their rep.
Guys say to me in emails "I bet you really turn heads when you go out"......well actually men won't even look at me when I go out....to Walmart or the Grocery store. They keep their eyes on the ground and won't even look my direction because someone...their buddies...the pubic....might see them check me out. Yes...im serious! When I go out in public men avoid eye contact or looking at me at all out of complete fear of being labeled gay or unmanly. Or they make fun of me and call me names if their buddies are around to look cool and manly in front of their friends.....even if they were with me the previous night. How would you feel if people were humiliated to have you as a friend or lover? Embarrassed of you and didn't want anyone to know they were attracted to you? Sadly....close to 70% of the men who write me on this site want to fuck me but would never want anyone to know or find out they had been with a transexual.
Now don't get me wrong....there are a few men on this site that are incredible and just all around wonderful that I am grateful wrote me...but most are cut from the same cloth as the guy above. So guys if your like Mr. Insecure asswhipe above....take someones feelings into consideration before you say something so fucking hurtful and realize transexuals are people...not sex toys...not freaks....and not something to hide in your closet.
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Transexual Problems
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Posted:Dec 6, 2013 11:21 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2017 5:59 pm
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This is one of those blogs where I try and bring realization to what my group goes through (transexuals) and maybe make other people realize they don't have it quite so bad. Ethnic groups and Gay people make comments how they are not treated equally quite often and how they don't get a fair shake. This really annoys me…..why? Because the most simple things they take for granted that I can't do. I will give you some examples of struggles I deal with every day so you can see what REAL problems are
Employement: 90% of places do not want their public image "tarnished" by having a transexual dealing with their customers so employment is very hard to find…this is why most Tgirls turn to to survive and the suicide rate is over 50%. Why is this the case…..well we are not considered victims of racial prejudice or sexual preference discrimination…it goes far worse…..to most of society we are considered Freaks. Trust me being a Freak is much worse. Unless transexuals can completely pass for a woman they can't even go grocery shopping without be stared at like some weirdo or tolerate whispers as they walk by.
Bathrooms: Even something so simple as using a public bathroom is a huge ordeal and cause for stress…..if you go into the mens room your stared at best case or beaten up worst case…..if you go into the women's room you can be arrested. Most states consider you male if you still have your lady beef so its illegal to use the women's bathroom so they force you to use the mens…..besides the embarrassment…its dangerous
Traveling: I am afraid to travel…..obviously when your transexual you fear the airport checks….but even road trips can be highly dangerous. If I get a flat or my car breaks down and I'm in the middle of no where lots of good ol boys would love to drag me behind their truck because I'm different. I live in KY …trust me…i can't even go to walmart without being called F*g or freak. What a wonderful world.
Cops: Getting pulled over means your treated pretty bad by most police…..if its something serious…the pat down will be humiliating and they will throw you in a jail cell with other men. If you think its drop the soap time when your a guy in there try being a transexual.
Finding love: As a transexual your pretty much a niche market in the dating world….you are either upfront that you have a dick or risk getting beaten up by your date for "tricking" him…ahh young love. If you find a man that wants you theres a very good chance he wants you to satisfy a sexual fetish and DOES NOT want to be seen in public with you. This is always wonderful for a transexuals ego to be confined to a hotel room for love and going out in public is out of the question. Most persecuted groups can at least "fit in" to public places. There is a huge different in Ethnic…Sexual Preferance…and being viewed as a freak.
Now these are just a few examples…of course I could spend all day going over things Ive had to deal with…..but Transexuals must fight depression everyday and tell themselves they have self worth when they are surrounded by a world that tells them they are outcasts. I have met some wonderful men and women that have made me feel "normal" and accepted…but lets be honest….MOST don't….we live in a close minded world. Especially in my neck of the woods…..as always …..hugs and kisses from me to all your pink parts.
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Getting Emails
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Posted:Nov 15, 2013 5:40 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2016 9:20 pm
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Hey boys....its Kimber again. I wanted to take a little time to explain how I perceive emails when i receive them. When a man writes me...I never treat him nasty...like sending him a response like "not intertested". You see...if a man takes time out of his day to write me.....wether he sends me a poem...or gentitalia pick and says lets hump......I consider it a gift and treat it as such. Let me explain. I never base my "interest" in a man by his pic or age or anything shallow. To me the makings of a man are so much more and its gonna take me time talking with him to learn who he is inside and at the end of the day thats all that matters. So in most cases I cannot not determine interest by a single email...and even if we are not compatible as a couple I may have found a good friend. I however never simply reject a man. That is damaging to someones self esteem and just cruel. I know rejection too well and would never be the cause of someone feeling like that. Now then...how about the guys who write me crude sexual emails or send me pics of their junk.....well I consider those gifts too. Im flattered that they found me attractive enough to write me. If a man writes me and says he wants to do me.. I consider that a compliment. I even treat such men nicely because damaging anothers self esteem or being mean does not make the world a better place and just because someone is disrespectful to you does not mean you need be in return. Afterall...you cannot complain about their behavior if you are guilty of the same via retaliation. We grow as people as long as we take the high road and get lost if we take the low road.
Now I wont sit here and preach without saying that I have taken the low road many times in my life as well as on this site but as part of the human race I am continuing to develop as a person. I try and identify my wrongs so that I can make them right and get back on the right road to where i want to be at the end of the day when i look into the mirror. My message is simply treat every email you receive as a gift...if they are mean to you for no reason it is still a gift because it gives you a wonderful opportunity to take the high road and be kind so someone who wronged you and become a better person.
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See my little Guy?
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Posted:Nov 14, 2013 8:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2018 2:18 pm
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Hi guys and gals....today I want to address a subject that is common to this site as well as others that has been discussed a lot recently...the dreaded Jimmy pic.....the "hey look at my privates" cam shot......the "mini me display piece". Yes these pics are crass....perhaps rude....in some cases vulgar (unless done really artsy like with it surrounded by roses)...and most definetly forward. Now before I proceed I want to state that most men on this site are wonderful and sweet and have treated me like a goddess and do not fall into this category and would never do this. However...I think too much offense is taken here. Just because someone sends you a inapropriate pic ...doesnt mean you are a piece of meat....you are what you feel you are.... and getting a pic should not change that. If the sender perceives you as such...who really cares. Peronally I dont find being considered a sex object or sexually attractive a bad thing. I mean if women didnt want to be perceived as sexually enticing make up....heels (the dreaded foot torture wear)....and sexy dresses would have no place. We all want to feel sexy. Sure....these inappropriate pics are a little low brow but I admire men for their simplicity in thought. Having a womans mentality means we overcomplicate things. We overthink and become over emotional and get our feelings hurt easily. I mean you never see a girl lift her shirt up and a guy say "oh my lord! Boobies! Put those horrible things away! I dont want to see those!" yet we react that way when they try and show off for us. Some men actually think we want to see it and believe they are bestowing a great honor unto us for they have revealed a great gift they are offering to us...lol
Maybe its just me but I find offensive things kinda funny like Fart jokes. I dont gasp when I open up a inapropriate pic. I simply smile and think about how I can reply cleverly to the forward advance. All im saying is that the guys on here are awesome...but there will always be the skype cam guy and the look at my kibble and bits guy. Like it or not I dont forsee them ever going away so why take offense or complain about their behavior? For any man who reads this blog that decides to send me a pic like this please at least make it artsy....like the Burt Reynolds playboy spread...or like maybe a small gif of you running down a beach from the waist down...flopping up and down...the ocean in the back ground with chariotts of fire playing....now thats a way to get a girls attention.....think outside the box and if your going to do something that seems thoughtless show us you really put thought into it and worked hard on it (no pun intended)
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