I am looking for an intimate partner. I just want some passion, desire, excitement and fun. I’m not looking for a relationship or for love. I am just simply looking for an intimate partner long term. I do believe in honesty and transparency so here’s the hard truth….. I am married. I do love my husband very much. For reasons unknown to me and reasons unknown to him, he’s not at all interested in sexual intimacy and is not capable of sexual intimacy. He is also not interested in doing the work to discover the problem and find a resolution. This has been going on for 10 years now. Needless to say, it’s been a long, rough 10 years. I have needs, wants, desires…..they won’t go away no matter how long and how hard I’ve suppressed them. After many, many discussions over many, many years……my husband’s “fix” for this issue is for me to seek out my needs, wants, desires from someone else. This is EXTREMELY hard for me to do. It’s EXTREMELY vulnerable and quite honestly, embarrassing for me. The truth is I have never been with anyone other than my husband throughout our entire marriage. While this was his idea & he gave his full permission, it’s still hard for me. With all of that said, the other real truth of it is…..I’m suffering from a very, very, very long unfulfilled intimate life. I need intimate attention, affection. I need passion, desire. I need excitement, fun. I also want to reciprocate all of it. I want mutually passionate, enjoyable experiences. I definitely deeply enjoy making my partner feel good. To be clear, this is just for me. My husband doesn’t want to be involved or know anything about what happens. My hope is to find a long term intimate partner. A very close, personal friend. I know this is a lot. I just cannot do anything that is deceitful, therefore, I just choose to be open and honest. If it’s too much, that’s okay. I completely understand. I know it’s a lot. Here’s a brief description of me: I am 5’6 I last weighed in at 170 pounds (still actively losing weight) I have blue eyes I have blonde hair (longer hair) I am still a bit over weight, looking to be at 130-140 pounds I have never smoked anything I have never been involved with drugs I drink alcoholic beverages very sparingly If you want to know anything else, please just ask. Thank you so much for your time in reading my “story.” Best wishes to you in your journey. Take care!

My Ideal Person My ideal person is patient! He is witty, funny, easy going. He is kind. He is honest. He is a leader. He can hold down conversation on a variety of topics. He is open minded in most ways, not rigid. My ideal person is “real.” I am not interested in a person that is an actor/fake. Just be real!