I am a 53 year old grandmother of 2 but I look much younger. I live in northern Wisconsin in a small town so meeting someone who lives with in a 30 mile radius or less of me could be some what embarrassing. I am not as in shape as I use to be but I still wear a size 12 so I'm not really too out of shape. I am married to the same husband for 32 years and I'm not looking to find someone else. I am more then happily married and the trust between us is amazing. That is why my husband is letting me do this. He is older and has a severe heart condition and has not been able to make love to me in quite a while. He loves me very much and wants me to be happy and to be able to feel fulfilled as a woman. So I am looking for men from the age of 18 to 30 years old for meetings half way between us. Hotels will be paid for by us and all arrangements will be made by us so all you have to do is meet us. There are a few rules that must be agreed to if we actually meet. I will list those later.

My Ideal Person My ideal person, I am looking for single men, trans or couples. The only way I'll meet you if you are married or living with someone is if you bring her along and let me enjoy her too. Yes, I am somewhat Bi sexual and I have been with women in the past. My husband has always let me be who I am and let me be with who I want. We have had a very wide variety of sexual interests in the past. We are members of 4 different sexually based groups and have always been accepting of all types of sexual beliefs. Everyone has something that turns them on and we have no problems with any that DO NOT include children. Anything else can be discussed.
I am a exhibitionist and like to flash my body in public. Bars, restaurants, hot tubes and stores are all places I have flashed. I dress very sexy. Very short skirts or dresses, sheer tops, heel shoes, thigh highs or crotchless pantyhose and see through or crotchless panties. I also love being touched, kissed and made love to in a changing booth with people right around us. This past fall my husband touched and kissed me while I was sitting on the side of a hotel pool while others were taking pictures of us through the pool door. Respect and gentleness is always a must though and if you make me worried or hurt me in any way the meeting will be over. Show me where you want to be kissed and touched. Touch and kiss me where you would like. Do to me what you would like to do as long as it is with in my rules. Basically a long loving session between us
Now; for the rules you will be expected to follow. Brake one of these and it's all over. First of all, my husband will be there at all times for my protection. Do not hurt me, choke me, slap or hit me . Be gentle at all times. DO NOT CUMM in my mouth if you would like me to kiss you. Sorry but bad history involving oral sex. DO NOT FORCE ANYTHING INTO MY ASS. Very lightly touching or kissing my ass is alright. I do exercises to keep my vagina very tight and it carries over to my ass so any penetration to my ass is very painful. Cumming most everywhere else is up to you but I consider it a waist and I would preferer you cumming in me the way a man should and where a man should. Any sexual products needed with be available for your use.
Please, carefully read over my rules and think hard about them before messaging me. Any messages to me must have a picture of your face Penis pictures don't impress me at all. I've seen a lot of dicks in my life. I will respond with a facial picture of myself. If we decide to meet and your face doesn't match the picture sent me we will just not respond to you at the meeting time You don't have to look like a movie star or have the body of an athlete. Personality and respect means much more.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
I play classical while making love

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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