What I want or need depends on the environment we create together. I love the thrill of getting to know someone. Frankly, I love the little details that make us all different. I enjoy creating a safe space for open communication & exploration. My love languages are: Quality Time, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation. I have two large dogs, Burt & Erny. They are much more important to me than anything else worth referring to. I recently moved home to be with terminally ill mother. In doing so I closed my restaurant in Chicago and bought one here, along with another business. I love food, drink, and the atmospheres created in my profession. I’m rather creative, deeply empathetic, and I have a very strong emotional radar. I’m naturally a pleaser which has helped me in hospitality, and as a Virgo people skills come natural to me. I’m not loud or flashy, I prefer to lead and be known by quality not quantity. Also, I hate writing about myself, but I had about 3 days on the page before I knew I needed to clarify some things… plus I got a wildly aggressive rant about dick pics. This is for fun, human connection is where life starts. I’m looking to share my emotional, physical, intellectual energy with people who enhance those very things.